Those dreaded three words don’t have to be the death knell of your relationship. LeGrande Green interviewslove expert Steve Horsmon about this oh-so-touchy subject: sexual rejection.

“Sexual attraction is such a delicate balance,” he says. “Everyone wants to get back to where they were in the first six months of a relationship. But it’s not what you do to have sex. It’s who you are being.”

Sexual rejection is far more common in long-term relationships than most people realize. “A lack of intimacy is one of the most hopeless feelings you will ever feel,” he says. “It is the source of overwhelming emotions of resentment, anger, impatience, and frustration.”

In this BOLD episode, Steve discusses the perils of “obligation sex” and outlines pivotal roles you must identify. Which are you: a distancer or a pursuer?Tune in for hissure-fire tips to rekindle romance and passion.

His websites are www.goodguys2greatmen.com and www.whatswithhim.com. Join the conversation at www.getboldtoday.com.